The administrative employee was recently confronted by a student who had seen one of her films. She refused his request for an autograph and told him to keep quiet about her double life. He instead told his friends and word eventually got back to the administration.
Okay first off, the reaction shouldn't have been to deny the autograph and tell him to keep quiet, because to be quite frank, knowing a porn star is something that every 18 year old boy would tell the world about.
No, the reaction should have been to deny the second job. Deny it vehemently and act disgusted. Doing this would have downplayed the odds that the kid would go to his friends and say she LOOKS like that porn star, and not she IS that porn star.
That was the mistake.